Aniela Nufer

My great grandfather was Peter Marcus Strzyzewski. He was born in Iwno, Poland on 24 Apr 1845 and baptized in the Kcynia parish 1 May 1845. His parents were Jozef Strzyzewski & Jozefa Budzynski. He married Maryanna Wasko Pyterek on 23 Nov 1887 at St. Stanislaus Kostka Church in Chicago. This marriage record has a lot of information on it like where they were born, who their parents were, addresses at time of marriage, but it also added a question. It states that he was a widower and his first wife was Aniela Nufer and that she died 15 Dec 1874 in Paterson, NY.

I am still looking for the marriage of Peter to Aniela and where Aniela is buried. Did they marry in New York or Poland? When did Peter immigrate?